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How Do I Forgive When It Still Hurts?: Breaking Free from the Prison of Unhealed Wounds
Paperback
Publisher: Independently Published
Published: Oct 16 2025
Pages: 272
Weight: 0.81
Height: 0.57 Width: 6.00 Depth: 9.00
Language: English
Forgiveness is not always easy-especially when the wound still hurts.
In How Do I Forgive When It Still Hurts?, Dameyan Cole offers a compassionate, biblical, and practical guide for anyone struggling to release pain, betrayal, disappointment, family wounds, church hurt, self-blame, or deep emotional scars. This book gently helps readers understand what forgiveness truly is-and what it is not.
Forgiveness does not mean pretending nothing happened. It does not mean excusing wrong, removing boundaries, rebuilding trust too quickly, or returning to unsafe situations. True forgiveness is the process of surrendering revenge to God, allowing Him to heal the wounded places of the heart, and learning how to live free from the prison of bitterness.
Through biblical teaching, honest reflection, prayer, practical steps, and a 30-day forgiveness practice, this book walks readers through the difficult but healing journey of letting go. Each chapter offers wisdom, encouragement, reflection questions, prayers, and Scriptures to meditate on, helping readers face the wound, release resentment, rebuild peace, and trust God with the healing process.
If you have ever wondered how to forgive when the pain is still real, this book will remind you that healing is possible, freedom is available, and God can restore what hurt tried to destroy.
You do not have to remain imprisoned by what wounded you. Forgiveness can begin one step at a time.
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