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Defy: The Power of No in a World That Demands Yes
Hardcover
CognitionGeneral PsychologySelf-Help
Publisher Price: $30.00
ISBN13: 9780593445778
Publisher: One World
Published: Jan 14 2025
Pages: 320
Weight: 1.18
Height: 1.17 Width: 6.39 Depth: 9.41
Language: English
Dr. Sunita Sah brilliantly reframes our understanding of defiance--from an act of mere rebellion to a vital tool for personal growth and social change.--Daniel H. Pink, #1 New York Times bestselling author of The Power of Regret
A powerful book. If you've ever compromised your principles to please others, Defy will give you the will--and skill--to stand up for yourself.--Adam Grant, #1 New York Times bestselling author of Think Again
The definitive book on defiance, a clear-eyed dissection of the forces that silence us, featuring groundbreaking research and legendary stories alongside everyday examples and strategies for how to unleash the power of a True No.
Why is it so hard to stand up to authority, even when we know something's wrong?
Many of us comply much more than we realize. How many times have you wanted to object, disagree, or opt out of something but ended up swallowing your words, shaking your head, and just going along? Analyzing cases ranging from corporate corruption and sexual abuse to everyday acquiescence at work, the doctor's office, and in our personal lives, award-winning organizational psychologist Dr. Sunita Sah delves deep into why the pressure to comply is a corrosive and often invisible force in our society.
With her own revelatory research, she radically transforms our idea of defiance from a misunderstood negative trait into a crucial, positive force for personal and societal change. Taking us through her five stages of defiance, Dr. Sah equips readers with simple tools to make decisions that align with their values. Defy is the essential playbook for how to speak up and act when it matters most.
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