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I Wasn't Ready to Say Goodbye: Surviving, Coping and Healing After the Sudden Death of a Loved One
Paperback
Publisher Price: $18.99
ISBN13: 9781402212215
Publisher: Sourcebooks
Published: May 1 2008
Pages: 320
Weight: 1.16
Height: 0.81 Width: 6.04 Depth: 8.90
Language: English
You never expected to say goodbye.
The most helpful grief book to read when you're ready to start healing after the loss of a loved one.
Whether you've lost a parent, partner, child, sibling, friend--or anyone you loved--I Wasn't Ready to Say Goodbye offers the compassion and clarity you need when grief is sudden, raw, and overwhelming.
This trusted guide has helped over a million readers cope with the shock of unexpected loss. Drawing from personal experiences and years of counseling insight, Brook Noel and Dr. Pamela D. Blair provide a steady, judgment-free companion through the most disorienting stages of grief.
Inside you'll find:
- Tools to manage emotional numbness, grief brain, and trauma responses
- Support for navigating anger, guilt, and the myths that block healing
- Guidance for grieving children, partners, and families
- Ways to honor your loved one while finding meaning and hope again
Named a Best Book on Losing a Parent by Choosing Therapy (2022), this book is widely recommended by grief counselors, hospice workers, and peer mentors.
Can hold a hand and comfort a soul through grief's wilderness. --George C. Kandle, Pastoral Psychologist
If you're looking for more than platitudes--if you need practical tools, real stories, and reassurance that healing is possible--this book is here to walk beside you.
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