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Infidelity, The Cheater: Why I Did It. How It Happened. What It Cost.
Paperback
Death & DyingGeneral ParentingRelationships
Publisher: Independently Published
Published: Dec 17 2025
Pages: 86
Weight: 0.28
Height: 0.18 Width: 6.00 Depth: 9.00
Language: English
Infidelity doesn't usually begin with desire.
It begins with silence.
Infidelity, The Cheater is not a guidebook, a defense, or a story written for shock value. It is a reflective, confessional examination of how betrayal often unfolds quietly in the modern digital age - through avoidance, distraction, emotional withdrawal, and the small permissions people grant themselves long before anything becomes visible.
Written from lived experience, this book does not attempt to excuse harm or offer easy conclusions. Instead, it traces the internal shifts that make infidelity possible: the conversations not had, the boundaries left undefined, the attention slowly redirected elsewhere.
Through narrative reflection, real-world scenarios, and careful analysis, Jeremy Abram explores:
How emotional and digital infidelity often begins long before physical betrayal
The subtle and obvious signs that connection is eroding
The role modern technology plays in blurred boundaries and quiet secrecy
Why avoidance - not malice - is often the true source of harm
What responsibility looks like after trust has been broken
How moments of discomfort, when addressed early, can prevent irreversible damage
This book does not promise reconciliation.
It does not offer formulas for repair.
It does not position the author as a moral authority.
What it offers instead is clarity - earned through experience rather than theory.
The hope behind this book is simple and restrained: that by speaking honestly about what went wrong, others might recognize similar patterns earlier in their own lives. That understanding might replace confusion. That attention might interrupt momentum. That choices might be made with greater awareness before silence hardens into secrecy.
This is not a story about redemption.
It is an accounting - written with care, accountability, and the belief that understanding, even when uncomfortable, can still be useful.
This book is for:Those who have been betrayed and want understanding without minimization
Those who recognize patterns in themselves and want to interrupt them
Couples trying to name what feels off before it becomes irreversible
Readers seeking honesty over performance-driven self-help
If you are looking for blame, this book will disappoint you.
If you are looking for clarity, it will meet you there.
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